What to Expect in Individual Therapy:
When you start individual therapy at Big Valley Therapy, you can expect a compassionate, non-judgmental space where you’ll feel seen and supported.
Here’s what the process often looks like:
First Sessions – Building Safety and Understanding:
We’ll start by exploring your story, your goals for therapy, and what’s been holding you back. Together, we’ll identify the emotional, relational, and behavioral patterns that have been keeping you stuck.
Middle Work – Healing at the Root Level:
Using approaches like EFT, IFS, and EMDR, we’ll go beyond surface coping. You’ll begin healing the deeper emotional wounds, unmet needs, and inner conflicts that fuel anxiety, depression, addiction, or relational disconnection.
Later Stages – Rebuilding Connection with Self:
As healing unfolds, we’ll help you build emotional resilience, develop healthier ways of relating to yourself and others, and strengthen your connection to your authentic Self.
Throughout the process, you’ll experience moments of clarity, emotional release, empowerment, and new hope for lasting change.
Common Issues We Work With in Individual Therapy:
Pornography and sexual addiction
Betrayal trauma and relationship wounds
Anxiety, panic, and chronic worry
Depression and emotional numbness
Childhood trauma and attachment wounds
Emotional dysregulation and overwhelm
Shame, low self-worth, and inner critic struggles
Identity issues and life transitions
Healing after affairs, infidelity, or compulsive sexual behaviors
Our Approach:
We believe in deep, transformational work—not just surface-level symptom relief. Therapy is tailored to your unique needs and draws from:
- Emotionally Focused Individual Therapy (EFIT)
- Internal Family Systems (IFS)
- Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)
- Mind-body connection and nervous system regulation strategies